Every dog that comes into my life will make an impact and often one that I never expected. With puppy ‘Storm’ I’ve done things a little bit differently than I did with Boss, Riva & Chica. I’ve been more ‘open’, not open to the ‘learning’ per say, but just open to whatever Storm had to give. Let me elaborate. All my previous dogs, I’ve taught the usual canine behaviours and with Boss and Riva I really honed in on adding some behaviour capture in the early weeks/months. But with Storm, I’ve mostly, at least 90% of everything i’ve done with her has been behaviour capture work, reinforcing her choices that I find desirable. The other thing that i’ve really honed in on has been to recognise her preferences. For example, what toys does Storm likes to play with and when does she like to play with them. What happens when she plays with certain toys and at the moment this has proven to be very helpful. At certain times of the day certain toys can result in a higher level of aroused behaviour. Leaving multiple toys on the ground can also cause over arousal, in fact I can only leave 3 things on the ground that don’t result in over arousal, a kong wobbler, a soother lickimat and a piece of black poly pipe, these 3 things are my constants for Storm and everything else is given or used at appropriate times. I feel that I know more about Storm in only 3 weeks than I knew about my others dogs in the first few months, I believe the result of this was me being able to identifying her behaviour change so quickly. The point is be open! It has allowed me a greater connection with this fabulous little girl in such a short period of time. Stay connected to my business FB Page and Instagram for the ‘Storm Chronicles’ as Storm starts puppy school on Tuesday night.
Read MoreMy dog went to rainbow bridge this weekend…
Riva earnt her angel wings on Saturday and I’m heart broken, i’m guttered, I’m beyond words and consumed by big ugly tears. Amongst the tears of loss, Riva is still managing to teach me a lesson. In fact, I think it’s one of the most pivotal lessons of my life and it has nothing to do with being a dog trainer and everything to do with being human! What is it? It’s a bit raw but Riva is helping me to deal with trauma and be in a space of processing grief for the very first time in my life. You see, I’m a ‘bottler’ – I store up all my past grief, challenges and trauma and you can probably guess where that landed me! But this morning I began to think about how she could be teaching me from beyond the bridge and the answer is pretty simple. It’s about the journey of discovery it’s about connection, bond, co-existence and understanding. Riva wasn’t and still isn’t just a dog, she’s a family member, she was a compliment to my life every single day of her existence. Riva was a comedian, a total ‘Diva’ and had to be in the centre of everything or risk being in FOMO land and she is high maintenance, can’t you just visual her in a human form right now……lol. My point is, there are dog owners and there are ‘dog owners’. A ‘dog owner’ is one that understands a dog is an extension or expansion of the family. The one who loves to have the dog snuggle up on the bed in the morning just like their kids did when they where younger. This dog owner takes time to learn the nuances of this new family member, it’s preferences – what it likes what it doesn’t like and not just fob it off as fussy, uncooperative, stubborn or worse ‘broken’. This ‘dog owner’ will be heavily engrossed in a movie and at the cliff hanger your dog will get up, stretch (Yoga style, down ward dog) and walk to the door to be let out because is wants to sniff a blade of grass and you probably grumble a bit (I know I do, because I swear to god, Riva did this every time) but every time I got up and let her out, stood out in the freezing cold and waited for…
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